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njsue
August 14th, 2006, 7:54:20 AM
Her Final Moment! On the front page of the NY Post.
http://www.nypost.com
http://www.nypost.com/news/regionalnews/a_view_to_a_kill_in_shock_vid_of_qns__bar_beautys_ slay_by_suicidal_ex_regionalnews_lorena_mongelli__ tatiana_deligiannakis_and_andy_geller.htm
what happened to true love?
anEinherjer
August 14th, 2006, 8:11:12 AM
Nothing personal sue, but what the hell is it with people just posting links? Say something about what you posted. What the hell is the link? What do you think about it? Is there a question in here somewhere? Why the F is the Post site so frigging slow? :D
Now that I've looked at hte front page, wtf does it have to do with PR or S? :D
35Pete
August 14th, 2006, 8:20:33 AM
A couple of things worth noting here.
Louis Vallejo did not kill Carolina Perez. The gun did.
Second. If someone would have just informed Louis that there are strict gun control laws in NYC then he would never have committed THE CAPITAL CRIME of murder.
Third. My how effective those laws are.
Fourth. If NYC had a right-to-carry law then I wonder how many rounds Louis would have taken from some patrons in the bar after he pumped that first shot into Carolina. She wasn't dead until he finished her off execution style.
njsue
August 14th, 2006, 8:21:17 AM
Nothing personal sue, but what the hell is it with people just posting links? Say something about what you posted. What the hell is the link? What do you think about it? Is there a question in here somewhere? Why the F is the Post site so frigging slow? :D
Now that I've looked at hte front page, wtf does it have to do with PR or S? :D
I did say something, What happened to True Love? True love in relationships lasting for years and years. Not this obsessive jealous crap. Are you safer to stay single? Or get into a relationship but from a distance.
Your thoughts! :D
35Pete
August 14th, 2006, 8:21:18 AM
Nothing personal sue, but what the hell is it with people just posting links? Say something about what you posted. What the hell is the link? What do you think about it? Is there a question in here somewhere? Why the F is the Post site so frigging slow? :D
Now that I've looked at hte front page, wtf does it have to do with PR or S? :D
I just made it political. :)
njsue
August 14th, 2006, 8:24:48 AM
Is shooting your ex better than walking down the street holding hands?
35Pete
August 14th, 2006, 8:25:01 AM
Fifth. Was he stalking her? If so then carrying a firearm might have saved her life. Ooops. Logical fallacy. Sorry. We all know that the Law is Johhny on The Spot when your life is in imminent peril. This was just an extremely rare exception.
njsue
August 14th, 2006, 8:27:51 AM
A couple of things worth noting here.
Louis Vallejo did not kill Carolina Perez. The gun did.
The gun could not do it all by itself.
This just proves that complete anger can over take your way of thinking sensibly.
njsue
August 14th, 2006, 8:35:07 AM
Fifth. Was he stalking her? If so then carrying a firearm might have saved her life. Ooops. Logical fallacy. Sorry. We all know that the Law is Johhny on The Spot when your life is in imminent peril. This was just an extremely rare exception.
She broke it off. He could not handle it. So he did what most cowards do male or female. If I cant have you no one can have you. BOOM. some one is planning a funeral. :(
SpikedLemonade
August 14th, 2006, 8:49:08 AM
Is shooting your ex better than walking down the street holding hands?
Now that's a tough question.
Who would I need to hold hands with?
njsue
August 14th, 2006, 8:52:33 AM
Now that's a tough question.
Who would I need to hold hands with?
Now there is a good question???
SpikedLemonade
August 14th, 2006, 8:56:16 AM
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Now there is a good question???
If I have to hold my ex's hand, I will take door #1 please.
Please pass the ammo.
nehemiah
August 14th, 2006, 9:09:55 AM
florida lets you shoot first.
so there are no crimes in florida?
:rolleyes:
njsue
August 14th, 2006, 9:12:29 AM
What happened to true love's existence, gentleman?
SpikedLemonade
August 14th, 2006, 9:14:52 AM
What happened to true love's existence, gentleman?
Sue, have you met my ex-wife?
njsue
August 14th, 2006, 9:17:06 AM
Sue, have you met my ex-wife?
No. Love existed between you two at one time.
I know we think wow I have found the love of my life and then reality hits.
The old fashioned romances IMO have gone out the window.
35Pete
August 14th, 2006, 9:32:13 AM
Ned Beasely: Welcome folks. Today Expose talks about gun control. With me are Wolfgang Flugenhorn, Carl Marks, and special guests Fred Flanders of the UC-Berkely Dept. of Psychology Center For Human Behavioral Apologists. Also from Handgun Control we have Chief Legal Consultant Barney Rubble.
Wolfgang Flugenhorn: Hello Ned.
Carl Marks: Long live the revolution. Power to the people!
Fred Flanders: Good morning folks. *Drinking a ice cold glass of carrot juice*
Barney Rubble: Ahh, gee Fred. My best friend has the same first name!
Ned: So Carl, what's your take?
Carl: Guns are evil. They impede the revolution.
Barney: I tend to agree with Carl here Ned. Our own polls show that 98% of the population is rabidly opposed to the private ownership of guns.
Fred: There is a syndrome associated with gun ownership. We at the institute refer to them as "Gun-tards".
Wolf: But guys. Don't you think Carolina would be alive if she was allowed to possess a firearm.
Barney: Would that have saved her in Florida?
Ned: Maybe not but you missed the point.
Carl: Well then, case closed. Next topic.
Wolf: Carl, Carl. *hitting Carl across the throat with a baton*. Oops. Thought I was swatting a fly.
Ned: You were.
Wolf: Florida doesn't have an open right to carry law either. But at least in Florida if she knew that she was in danger she could have lawfully obtained a firearm.
Barney: Let the law handle this Wolf. Carolina can always file a civil rights complaint against Louis.
Fred: Simply put this is a tragedy. If the NYPD was there in advance like all police forces are she would still be alive.
Ned: That's absurd!
Carl: Haven't you ever seen Minority Report you fool! Geez, what an idiot.
njsue
August 14th, 2006, 9:45:38 AM
Ned Beasely: Welcome folks. Today Expose talks about gun control. With me are Wolfgang Flugenhorn, Carl Marks, and special guests Fred Flanders of the UC-Berkely Dept. of Psychology Center For Human Behavioral Apologists. Also from Handgun Control we have Chief Legal Consultant Barney Rubble.
Wolfgang Flugenhorn: Hello Ned.
Carl Marks: Long live the revolution. Power to the people!
Fred Flanders: Good morning folks. *Drinking a ice cold glass of carrot juice*
Barney Rubble: Ahh, gee Fred. My best friend has the same first name!
Ned: So Carl, what's your take?
Carl: Guns are evil. They impede the revolution.
Barney: I tend to agree with Carl here Ned. Our own polls show that 98% of the population is rabidly opposed to the private ownership of guns.
Fred: There is a syndrome associated with gun ownership. We at the institute refer to them as "Gun-tards".
Wolf: But guys. Don't you think Carolina would be alive if she was allowed to possess a firearm.
Barney: Would that have saved her in Florida?
Ned: Maybe not but you missed the point.
Carl: Well then, case closed. Next topic.
Wolf: Carl, Carl. *hitting Carl across the throat with a baton*. Oops. Thought I was swatting a fly.
Ned: You were.
Wolf: Florida doesn't have an open right to carry law either. But at least in Florida if she knew that she was in danger she could have lawfully obtained a firearm.
Barney: Let the law handle this Wolf. Carolina can always file a civil rights complaint against Louis.
Fred: Simply put this is a tragedy. If the NYPD was there in advance like all police forces are she would still be alive.
Ned: That's absurd!
Carl: Haven't you ever seen Minority Report you fool! Geez, what an idiot.
Pete, are you off the pain killers :D ;)
SpikedLemonade
August 14th, 2006, 10:07:50 AM
No. Love existed between you two at one time.
I know we think wow I have found the love of my life and then reality hits.
The old fashioned romances IMO have gone out the window.
I disagree.
YES, my ex and I onced loved each other, but her low self-esteem from her terrible family upbringing meant she needed to validate herself constantly by sucking as much coq as possible throughout her life.
As to my current girlfriend who I will marry next year, our love is deep, but with a blended family of her 2 girls and my 3 teenagers, I don't know if you can call it an old fashioned romance.
We do still set Friday night aside as Date Night.
Lucidvizion
August 14th, 2006, 10:10:46 AM
I know we think wow I have found the love of my life and then reality hits.
The old fashioned romances IMO have gone out the window.
In this day and age, I believe the reason behind a lot of the failed marriages is because many men and women are incapable or unwilling to view their spouse(or the opposite sex in general) as their equal.
That formula wasn't so necessary in the past, as it was accepted as the norm that males dominate and "that's just how it is".
Also, a lot of people just marry their lovers and expect everything else to take care of itself... I suppose thats what you meant by 'reality hits'. You tend to find out really quickly if you have different goals and expectations than your partner. He wants to wait until he's in your 30's to start having children, she wants 6 kids before she's 30... "little" stuff like that tends to get in the way.
For you yet to be married folk out there, before you get married it is imperitive that you talk about those things. They are deal breakers that love alone cannot prevail against. Kids, financial expectations, sexual expectations, work/school, etc.
35Pete
August 14th, 2006, 10:18:05 AM
Ned: Back from commercial.
Wolf: Challenging Fred's claim that the police should have been in the bar in advance of the shooting we have, on videolink, Det. Thomas Cruise of the NYPD Pre-Crime Division. Thomas?
Thomas Cruise: *jumping up and down on a couch* Just tragic what happend. But we use advanced computer programs to predict crime before it happens. Just so happened that the computers were unavailable at the time of the shooting.
Carl: See you fools! Pre-crime prevention is a reality!
Barney: Sad really. What happend? Were they offline?
Thomas: No, we lease them from time to time to leading researchers for global warming studies.
Wolf: What would you have done otherwise Thomas?
Thomas: Why we would have arrested him!
Fred: The right thing to do. Then a NYC judge would have slapped him with 14 months house arrest and mandatory anger management group therapy. Too bad we couldn't have rehabilitated the poor fellow.
Ned: What about Carolina?
Barney: What about her? There is no political mileage to be had out talking about her.
Green Lantern
August 14th, 2006, 10:21:49 AM
I did say something, What happened to True Love? True love in relationships lasting for years and years. Not this obsessive jealous crap. Are you safer to stay single? Or get into a relationship but from a distance.
Your thoughts! :D
I think, for you, the "get in a relationship at a distance" choice.
Keep swapping, "it just rained after I manured the flower beds and I am so excited," shout-out's with Sukie in the mornings for a while and see how that goes.
njsue
August 14th, 2006, 10:35:23 AM
I think, for you, the "get in a relationship at a distance" choice.
Keep swapping, "it just rained after I manured the flower beds and I am so excited," shout-out's with Sukie in the mornings for a while and see how that goes.
Looks like you prefer psychos.
Green Lantern
August 14th, 2006, 10:37:29 AM
Looks like you prefer psychos.
No, I've never made a pass at you.
gilchristfan
August 14th, 2006, 10:46:53 AM
No, I've never made a pass at you.
:guy:
г
August 14th, 2006, 10:48:28 AM
Pwned!
njsue
August 14th, 2006, 11:06:00 AM
No, I've never made a pass at you.
That is so relieving! :phew:
pmoon6
August 14th, 2006, 11:11:18 AM
I blame it on the feminazis, they've emasculated males and turned them into metrosexuals. Pass the moisturizer please.
All kidding aside, this is one case. The case involved a Hispanic male, many of whom are very controlling when it comes to their women. It's that Latino machismo. Now, before you start calling me a racist, notice that I didn't say all. I have a great many Latino friends and my wife's sister was married to a Hispanic man for 20 years. She divorced him for that very reason.
г
August 14th, 2006, 11:13:47 AM
Q: Why do Latinos put those little steering wheels on their cars ?
A: To make it easier to drive with handcuffs on.
JoeMama
August 14th, 2006, 11:16:52 AM
Damn, man.
Seems pretty invasive to post a picture of "her final moment" alive.
It's a picture of her, terror-stricken with a handgun crammed in her face.
I don't want to see her emotional reaction to the realization that she's going to die.
Seems intrusive.
njsue
August 14th, 2006, 11:20:38 AM
I blame it on the feminazis, they've emasculated males and turned them into metrosexuals. Pass the moisturizer please.
All kidding aside, this is one case. The case involved a Hispanic male, many of whom are very controlling when it comes to their women. It's that Latino machismo. Now, before you start calling me a racist, notice that I didn't say all. I have a great many Latino friends and my wife's sister was married to a Hispanic man for 20 years. She divorced him for that very reason.
I divorced my husband for that same reason, domineering.
To rule over or control arbitrarily or arrogantly; tyrannize.
pmoon6
August 14th, 2006, 11:26:28 AM
I divorced my husband for that same reason, domineering.
To rule over or control arbitrarily or arrogantly; tyrannize.Yep, she couldn't go out with friends or come home from work late without getting the second degree. She stayed until her youngest graduated from high school.
njsue
August 14th, 2006, 11:32:14 AM
Yep, she couldn't go out with friends or come home from work late without getting the second degree. She stayed until her youngest graduated from high school.
I took the advice of a friend. When in doubt, throw him out. I did just that.
My husband was from Portugal. He was definitly his father's son.
I married at the age of 26. Saw the light at 27. Out he went.
gilchristfan
August 14th, 2006, 11:38:19 AM
All kidding aside, this is one case.
Yeah, that about sums it up. Its like posting an Andrea Yates article and wondering why mothers don't love their children.
gilchristfan
August 14th, 2006, 11:40:01 AM
When in doubt, throw him out..
Maybe you should make that a part of your vows next time.
Green Lantern
August 14th, 2006, 11:45:36 AM
I took the advice of a friend. When in doubt, throw him out. I did just that.
Is this what today's relationship's are coming to?
njsue
August 14th, 2006, 11:46:12 AM
Maybe you should make that a part of your vows next time.
Once is enough.
Green Lantern
August 14th, 2006, 11:48:33 AM
Once is enough.
You are beginning to talk in circles.
SpikedLemonade
August 14th, 2006, 11:54:28 AM
I have a great many Latino friends and my wife's sister was married to a Hispanic man for 20 years. She divorced him for that very reason.
That's going to really impress Pete.
njsue
August 14th, 2006, 12:10:59 PM
It's not the nationality. It is the fact they are so insecure with themselves.
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