question on a girl from a high schooler a.k.a. this is desperate people!!

[Bills5680]

Give me your advice or opinion on this situation....

Last year, around late september, early october of my sophemore year, this incredibly, incredibly beautiful, extremely nice girl started flirting with me, she had a huge crush on me and I knew it, but for some reason that I still can't quite figure out, I never really made a decisive mood. We made some plans to go on a date, but they got canceled cuz she had to work, and after that, she drifted on to other guys. This completely crushed me, and I haven't liked a girl since her. Our relationship has severely deteriorated from last year. Where we used to talk and flirt, now we only acknowledge each other in the halls less times than the Offensive Line holds together (FOOTBALL REFERENCE, YOU CAN'T MOVE ME, MWUHAHAHA). It sucks and hurts like a swift kick to the balls everytime I walk by her, and we make eye contact, but don't say anything. Can any girl, or person explain what is up with this, and if I ever stand a chance of getting another shot with her? Oh yeah, I have never done anything to make her angry, so that can't be the cause of it. It's my junior year, I haven't gotten with a girl since the summer before Sophemore year, and I'm completely head over heels in love with this girl. I can't push her out of my mind or anything. I need advice...desperately...

Blow her off! You'll meet so many more women in your lifetime that you won't even remember who she was when your in college.

Whatever you do, don't listen to anything that Rude American tells you!!!

BTW, sounds like part of your deal is trying to figure the female psyche out! Good luck. :D

[Stealth01]

...is right in front of you. Each time you pass in the hallway. Talk to her. Ask her what happened. Say something like, "Hey, you know, we were supposed to go out last year, but we couldn't and since then, we haven't really talked. I kind of miss that, and I'd like to take another shot at it."

Oh, and at all costs avoid saying:

<i>Can any girl, or person explain what is up with this, </i>

Girl = Person. Same same. Just different parts.

Jaded, Missphin, etc may have better advice, but I'd say she probably thinks you backed off and is wondering why, just like you are.

Give it a shot...assuming, of course, she's not taken already!

"Hey, you know, we were supposed to go out last year, but we couldn't and since then, we haven't really talked. I kind of miss that, and I'd like to take another shot at it."

If you have a set, you won't listen to Barili. ;)

[Justafan]

Originally posted by Stealth01
...is right in front of you. Each time you pass in the hallway. Talk to her. Ask her what happened. Say something like, "Hey, you know, we were supposed to go out last year, but we couldn't and since then, we haven't really talked. I kind of miss that, and I'd like to take another shot at it."


Give it a shot...assuming, of course, she's not taken already!

Yeah, I agree w/ whatever he said. I saw that movie too. ;) I think it was a happy ending, right stealth?

[Stealth01]

Originally posted by MadBuffalo


If you have a set, you won't listen to Barili. ;)

Make fun of me, Mad. That's OK. :b

My technique might be softer, but I'm a 36-year-old (Well, in 2 weeks) guy married to a 26-year-old gorgeous redhead.

If he has a set, he'll just talk to her. That's usually all it takes to straight things out.

I had to get you on that one Chris. It was too easy of a shot. :)

Nothing wrong with a gorgeous 26 year-old redhead either. Especially if she is 10 years younger.


:smileysex

[Stealth01]

Originally posted by MadBuffalo
I had to get you on that one Chris. It was too easy of a shot. :)

Nothing wrong with a gorgeous 26 year-old redhead either. Especially if she is 10 years younger.


:smileysex

Yep. She keeps me young and makes me turn gray, all at the same time! :D

[BogusTrumper]

Go for it! You don't want to spend the rest of your life wondering what could have happened. You never know. And if you don't end up going out, you won't be any worse off than you are now!:cool:

[BogusTrumper]

Originally posted by MadBuffalo
I had to get you on that one Chris. It was too easy of a shot. :)

Nothing wrong with a gorgeous 26 year-old redhead either. Especially if she is 10 years younger.


:smileysex

Originally posted by Stealth01


Yep. She keeps me young and makes me turn gray, all at the same time! :D

You going to let Mad get away with that Stealth? That's just rude!

[Stealth01]

Originally posted by MissBuffalo
Maybe she thinks your not interested anymore. From my experience, girls tend to shy away becasue they are not taught to "be the aggressors." I'm a little older than you high schoolers, so I'm not sure what has and hasn't changed in the past ten years, but I'm guessing she thinks you're done with it. Maybe inside she's hoping you'll go up to her. I'm thinking she's too shy to go up to you.

And what's this 26 year old red head stuff about??? I think I missed something!

Hee hee. That's my fault.

Mad slammed on me, saying my approach would net him NADA. I responded that my approach had netted me a gorgeous woman ten years younger than me. That's where that came from. :)

[BogusTrumper]

Stealth -- you da man! :cool:

[BigDoug]

Bills, you have to treat her like she was a wild west saloon...

(liquor in the front, poker in the rear):D

[BogusTrumper]

I can tell you get a lot of dates!:rolleyes:

[Bills5680]

Yeah, I don't. I'm so damn naive that I miss my chance with all the hot ones. If it wasn't for my own stupidity....but that's the way it is, and oh yeah, this post is void now, cuz I'm not really interested in this girl anymore. New girls to see, things to do..

Don't you mean New girls to do, New Things to see. ??? hehe lol :D

The fact that you attracted her in the first place speaks volumes about your potential. Just go talk to other girls and get on with it already.